Still Wetting the Bed?
A gentle program to help children aged 5–12 stop bedwetting
(even if alarms haven’t helped)
Why Is My Child Still Wetting the Bed?
If you’re tired and frustrated by your child’s bedwetting, you’re not alone. The Stay Dry at Night program helps you understand the common and less widely recognised factors that may contribute to wet nights, so you can help your child stop wetting the bed.
The “Brain-Bladder” Connection
For many children, the brain and the bladder haven’t quite learned how to “talk” to each other yet. When your child is asleep, their bladder tries to send a message saying it is full, but that message isn’t getting through.
The good news is that this connection can often be developed relatively quickly and easily. Using Neuro-Linguistic Programming (which helps the brain learn new ways to respond to signals) and light hypnosis, we work to build and ‘wire’ that connection so the brain starts listening to the bladder’s messages.
In our program, your child listens to gentle bedtime recordings designed to help their brain recognise the bladder’s “I’m full” signal.
Other Factors at Play
But the brain–bladder connection isn’t the whole story. A child’s wet nights can be affected by a range of factors, from everyday habits and toileting patterns to physical development. For instance:
Drink Choices
Some drinks may increase urine production overnight.
Gravity
When your child lies down, gravity affects the bladder and its supporting muscles and ligaments differently.
Bladder Capacity
Some children’s bladders may hold less urine overnight.
How Does the Program Work?
We focus on strengthening communication between the brain and bladder, so they can work together through the night. We also explore the common—and less widely known—factors that may contribute to bedwetting, helping you understand the full picture and find practical ways to address them.
Pillar 1. Training the Brain-Bladder Connection
The heart of our program is three specialized audio recordings that teach your child’s brain how to stay alert to their body’s signals while they sleep.
We use a combination of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), therapeutic metaphors, and light hypnosis to reach the unconscious mind—the part of the brain that stays “on duty” even in deep sleep. We are essentially opening up the lines of communication so the brain and bladder can finally talk to each other throughout the night.
How it works:
At bedtime, your child listens to one of the gentle recordings as they settle to sleep. Through stories, metaphors, visualisation and light hypnosis, the recordings are designed to help your child notice their body’s signals and feel more confident about how to respond.
- Notice the signal: Help your child become more aware of the “I’m full” message.
- Know what to do: Explore responding to that signal by waking to use the toilet or staying dry until morning.
- Build confidence: Encourage your child to feel calm and capable as they work towards dry nights.
- Personalised recording (Premium): A custom recording can include your child’s name, interests and bedtime routine.
Pillar 2. Your Step-by-Step Members’ Toolkit
The Stay Dry at Night Method uses a two-pillar approach to end bedwetting: Neurological Rewiring (Brain) and Physical Support (Body).
Parents love this toolkit because it removes the guesswork. You’ll receive an online, week-by-week guide designed to walk you through the process step-by-step, helping you learn exactly how to help your child wake up dry.
It combines powerful cognitive techniques to rewire the brain-bladder connection with simple physical strategies to support the body.
The Members’ Toolkit includes:
- The Sammy Method: A fun way to help your child understand the brain and bladder connection.
- Hidden Triggers: Clear information on how food, drinks and even mouth breathing can contribute to wet nights.
- Beyond the Basics: Guidance on deeper factors like constipation and how it can impact bladder capacity.
- Simple Exercises: Easy 2-minute exercises for the muscles involved in bladder control.
- Success Tools: Simple diaries and charts to track progress and celebrate every “dry morning” win.
Listen to a Sample of a Recording
Hear how the calming music and gentle stories help your child feel relaxed and ready to learn.
90-Day Money Back Guarantee
We want you to feel completely confident. If you follow the program and it does not click for your child within 90 days, we will give you your money back.
Is This Program Right For Your Child?
Specifically designed for children aged 5 to 12.
If You’ve Already Tried An Alarm
Maybe the alarm woke everyone in the house—the dog included—but your child slept through it. Maybe it went off on a hot, sweaty night, broke, or your child became frightened by the sound. Or perhpas it just didn’t help.
If an alarm hasn’t suited your child, Stay Dry at Night offers a completely different approach.
Stay Dry at Night is an award-winning program that pairs calming bedtime recordings focused on brain–bladder communication with a comprehensive online course for parents.
Its week-by-week roadmap helps you explore common—and less obvious—factors that may contribute to bedwetting, with practical steps to work through along the way.
Choose the Right Program for Your Child
If you would like to know more about the specific differences between our Standard and Premium programs, head to our FAQ.
Standard Program
🌟Everything You Need - Start Tonight🌟
$129
- A step-by-step roadmap to guide you through each week of the programme
- Three bedtime recordings designed to strengthen brain-bladder communication.
- Identify what may be contributing to your child's bedwetting - and what you can do about it
- Gentle cognitive techniques and physical exercises
- Designed to be easy for parents to follow and enjoyable for children
- Email help and support provided
Backed by a 90-day money-back guarantee
Enjoy instant access the moment you purchase
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Premium Program
✨Tailored to Your Child✨
$199
The complete Stay Dry at Night Programme, with:
- One personalised bedtime recording created especially for your child
- One bedtime recording featuring your chosen character - Luna, Fairy, Wizard or Unicorn
- A tailored programme order, where needed
- Additional guidance tailored to your child's needs
- Suitable for children aged 5-12 years
- Email help and support provided
Backed by a 90-day money-back guarantee
Your personalised recordings will be emailed within 3 working days.
🔥 Open Periodically🔥
How Long Does the Bedwetting Program Take to Work?
Every child is different. Some children stop wetting within a few days of starting the recordings and following the guide. For others, it takes a little more time and patience while the brain and bladder learn to work together.
The members’ toolkit helps you identify if there are other factors involved, like constipation or mouth breathing, so you can help set your child up for success. The most important thing is to stay positive, learning is not always a straight line!
"Thank you for helping me learn about my body and notice how to control it."
Bedwetting Help and Hope for Parents
Bedwetting can feel frustrating, worrying and isolating—especially when it’s not often talked about. Our free Facebook group brings together parents going through the same thing. Share experiences, find helpful tips and support one another along the way.
Everyone who purchases the Stay Dry at Night bedwetting program is invited to join a separate private group.
Awards
Parenting Support Platform
of the Year - Australia
December 22, 2025
Trade & Services Category Winner
October 13, 2025
Most Innovative Children's Bedwetting Programme 2025
October 9, 2025
Top 6 on Best Bedwetting Blogs & Website
June 11, 2025
Finalist in the Online Business Category
October 22, 2025
Most Innovative Children's Bedwetting Programme 2024
September 9, 2024
Specialist Hypnotherapist of the Year
January 12, 2023
Most Effective Children's Bedwetting Solution
September 20, 2021
Bedwetting Solution: Questions and Answers
These are some of the most common questions we hear. For even more, check out the Full FAQ Page where we cover everything in detail.
Yes. Around 15-20% of 5-year-olds still wet the bed as their brain and bladder connection develops. If it’s happening most nights, a structured program with clear solutions can help your child stay dry more quickly.
About 5-10% of 8-year-olds still wet the bed. At this age, it often means the brain and bladder need extra support at night. Constipation, deep sleep, or genetics may contribute and there are a myriad of other factors that can also play a role.
The Stay Dry at Night program helps families explore these causes with practical solutions and is especially ideal for eight-year-olds, as they begin having more social activities like sleepovers, making it increasingly important to address bedwetting.
Yes, our program is specifically designed to effectively address bedwetting in 10-year-olds, offering a comprehensive approach to the issue. This age is particularly critical as school camps and sleepovers become more common, and managing bedwetting becomes crucial to prevent it from turning into a stressful experience for the child.
This age group is particularly well-suited to benefit from the reinforcement techniques and physical exercises included in our program, key components in stopping bedwetting. These methods may not only help to improve bladder control and bladder capacity but also help boost the child’s confidence in managing their condition. As a result, social activities like sleepovers and school camps become less daunting and more enjoyable.
Many parents say, “my child is such a deep sleeper… they won’t even wake up to an alarm.” Deep sleep can make it harder for the brain to notice when the bladder is full, but it isn’t the only cause. And the good news is, even very deep sleepers often make great progress with the Stay Dry at Night program.
Yes. Children with ADHD are two to three times more likely to experience bedwetting. That’s why the Stay Dry at Night program is laid out in clear, structured steps that parents can follow without guesswork. Many families managing ADHD have found success using this approach. For more detail, see my blog post on the relationship between ADHD and bedwetting.
Medication can sometimes reduce wet nights, but it rarely provides a long-term solution. Once stopped, bedwetting usually returns. The Stay Dry at Night program focuses on lasting changes that help the brain and bladder work together naturally.
The program uses cognitive techniques and bedtime recordings with visualisation, metaphors, and gentle hypnosis suggestions to strengthen brain-bladder communication. It also explores factors like urine production and bladder capacity, with a step-by-step guide designed to help your child sleep through the night dry.
